Vibe Nerd

#1: They’re only for single people

This is one of the worst misconceptions. Men especially seem to think that bringing a vibrator into the bedroom means some kind of failure. Guys, you aren’t being cuckholded by a piece of plastic. It’s the opposite, the pleasure you’re delivering is multiplied by the inclusion of a toy. Think of it like playing Mario Kart with unlimited speed boost mushrooms.

#2: They’ll ruin your ability to experience pleasure without them

Why does it feel like society is just desparate to deprive women of pleasure? There is no scientific evidence of long-lasting desensitization from vibrator use. Some women say that regular sex can be less impactful right after excessive vibrator use. However, even in these cases their libido returns to normal after a week or two. Your vagina’s memory is not that long.

#3: Having one means you’re super sexual

“OMG, a vibrator in your bedside drawer? You must be, like, kinky.” This might describe you, or it might not. Either way, you’re a human and sometimes want to experience sexual pleasure. For many people, a vibrator is the best way to do that. That doesn’t make you weird. It makes you human.